sexy.

so hood, yet so "executively correct". respected, cool and quick witted. new styling....hints of high end fashion with fit and silhoette. alternative inspiration, and obviously cultured and still willing to seek more. confidence and numbers to back it up. living legend. trendsetter, taste-maker, a mans man. dont tell him i said it.

oh, LOVE.

"When love is pure, there is no need to control, convince, cajole, beg or insist. There is just surrender." ~Deepak Chopra



My good, never speak to on a regular basis-but always pick up where we left off friend, Valeisha Butterfield shared this gem on twitter.( check her out: Web: www.weenonline.org Twitter: www.twitter.com/valeisha )
The words moved her enough to share and they have done the same for me.
With all these self proclaimed wisdom gurus in twitterville only the special quotes like this one stand out. thanks V!

(although the picture above may look like fun for some of u-no one wants to be held hostage in real life.)
This quote struck a cord with me-I've been in a not-so good relationship that included a lot of the above. i was young and i remember Not having the words to express this exact sentiment. but i remember saying to him during one of our many status evaluations: love shouldn't be this hard, it should not feel like a chore and i don't want my love to be evaluated, period! he would isolate me from my friends and family and often tell me--you're just young and u don't know how to sacrifice and stick it out. you are spoiled and I'm just trying to teach you about a "real" relationship. then he would ask me if i wanted out--I'd say, yes. then he'd cry and beg. then proceed to tell me, no one would or could love me as much as him. TRAGIC, right?
hell yeah-i was there!
but none-the-less i made it thru that. and I've witnessed some of my friends get entangled in similar situations. its hard to watch someone go thru--what u know will never work but u gotta speak ur piece and let them find their way out of it.
so long story short---this quote says it all! if ur in a situation and the above applies------RUN!
LOVE should never hurt or make u feel bad-there's no boot camp, score board or isolation required. ur either in love or ur not.

i wanna be where u are.

Helen Rogers: Who lives here?
John Dillinger: What do you care?
Helen Rogers: Well, I just like to know where I am.
John Dillinger: You're with me.



more famous quotes

i feel the happiness, i feel the pain-memory lane

minnie riperton-memeory lane
she wrote this song while living with cancer as a wife, mother of two, social activist and inspiration to many. she had a voice of an angel, and a heart of gold-neither will ever be replaced. after hearing her story of passion, love, triumph and gone too soon demise. this song means that much more.
it makes me think of a certain someone and a special time filled with passion, pain, ballz, laughs, secrets, honey comb hide-outs, good ass food, amazing sex and regrets.ahhhhhh....... MEMORY LANE.

i want muscles.....

in the words of Diana Ross--"i want muscles!" especially when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. i don't want a jerk but i don't want a pushover either. if something is wrong or not to ur liking say something-do something. but don't whine! not sexy. 

and how do u expect me to move forward once I've seen u shrivel up and die in the face adversity. let me be the girl, please! i'm such a cancer. tough on the outside-tender on the inside. i don't always express myself as much as i should so therefore my mate needs to be able the balance me off. nothing personal just my preference. eat ur Wheaties damn it. BYE.

bringing sexy back

just incase u forgot how fine Ginuwine was---here's the update. BANG!
he has an album out now----A MANS THOUGHTS. go and support my family!!!

let u down slow

how do u let a dude down slow and easy. how do u say--I'm just not that into u? I'm not good with just saying it--I'm more of the death by anonymity, type girl. no text or phone calls being answered. no bbm acknowledgement, no top friend on myspace placement or public post time on facebook. no sir.

 but why dont people get the hint?--i don't care how busy u may be--u make time for the things that are important. so weather u are the giver or receiver of this type treatment or the lack of---get a clue. please im so good at dishing it i recognize the "potential " of it being done to me.

good ol' Rapunzel let him down slow and gentle, she was patient-letting her beau climbed down her long locks-tugging at her tender scalp.

it that were me, it would have been a weave and i would have used a whole can of ghetto isoplus spray in the blue can to loosen that load and dead the prolonging of an undeniable end. no meals for the sake of them being free-no status updates thru the course of my day and NO u may not come to a family function and I'm not coming to urs. i cant.

so single people ask urself ar u courting someone or are u tugging on the nape of their kitchen irritating the hell out of them while they are trying to politely shake u loose so someone else can climb up to the tower for good times???????!!!

excuse me sir---ur pulling my hair and i dont like u for it.